Bottom line, Capt. Nowak obviously had a momentary lapse in judgement as a result of compounding human issues - that's life!!!
We've all had momentary lapses in judgment, none of which involve stalking, disguises, pepper spray and so on. It's clear that Captain Nowak has a much more serious problem. We can only hope that she can be successfully treated. I agree fully that many of the details are none of our business.
NASA should make no public statements at this point!!!
NASA has to. It has billions and billions of dollars tied up in assets, both ground and space-based. Often times, those assets are the responsibility of a very small and select group of people. Something in the system failed--failed both NASA and Captain Nowak personally--and you can't just shrug it off. They've got to restore a high degree of public confidence that they are handling both people and dollars responsibly. Michael