I’ve been thinking on this, i hope I say this right because my brain is a little scattered right now. I would like to see the diving of our parents things be a little more with a conversation. I don’t want to say this wrong, but even more so I don’t want hurt feelings. I know there was a list made for larger items, and while I’m good with requests, I think it should be to Blaine and Carolyns children and then as they want for their kids it goes through the parent. For instance if I chose the chop saw as something I really want then Its up to me if I want to give my choice to briton. And if I knew Blaine really wanted the chop saw, I’d let him chose it over me for briton. (And no, briton does not want a chop saw.😂) I know there is a lot of stuff and many opportunities to find what will bring a memory or connection with grandparents. I’d be happy to send out this list and be that connection, but ideally would be to gather and talk. Barb