Dad IS disappearing... I felt that about Lee in the months after he left. Not so much any more. Part of that, I think, is the passage of time... that as the new reality becomes "normal" the feeling of disappearing diminished and then it disappeared itself. I also work to keep the memories - and stories, and gratitude - alive.

Love the video idea!

Stories work well too - I've seen Mom's eyes light up at even a brief story about Dad - especially ones she hasn't heard, or hasn't heard from me - always a different take depending on the storyteller.

I think her feeling of "disappearing" will pass after a time. At some point I think she's likely to start feeling him close again :  )

> On Jul 13, 2017, at 12:31 PM, Carol Carroll <carrollmailbox@gmail.com> wrote:
>
> Yesterday Mom told me that it feels like Dad is disappearing.
> That soon she won't be able to remember him or have proof that he really was here all those years.
>
> I'm wondering if videos of Dad might help Mom.
> If you have videos you can share with Mom please do!
>
> She can watch DVDs on her computer.
> Or any format that would be Mom-friendly, or easy for her to learn.
>
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